Living Single: Buying A House Without A Spouse

By Sabrina Biehl Published Mar 17, 2015 01:05 am Updated May 31, 2019 07:08 pm

Home purchases among single people are a growing trend, as buyers take advantage of low rates and available funds to transition from renting to homeownership.

And by and large, those singles are not men.

“A few decades ago, a single woman buying real estate on her own was a rarity. Before the Fair Housing Act of 1968, few women could get approved for a credit card, much less a mortgage, without a husband’s or father’s signature,” said US News. “Now that’s all changed. In fact, the National Association of Realtors reports that since the mid-1990s, single women have purchased homes at nearly twice the rate of single men. Last year, single female homeowners made up 18 percent of household composition in the association’s Profile of Home Buyers and Sellers, compared to 10 percent for single men.”

Think you’re ready to take the leap?

“By educating and empowering themselves, single women have acquired a sense of homebuying confidence, making the dream of homeownership a reality,” said the Shriver Report. “It’s a process that doesn’t necessarily begin with love first – unless it’s for her dream house. She just needs a good real estate agent, an educated understanding of navigating the homebuying process, and a glass of champagne to celebrate after signing on the 50,000 dotted lines at closing.”

Here are a few things to consider:

Make sure you have enough money to make the purchase

First-time buyers may be saving for a down payment and not thinking about the other costs of buying a house, like closing costs, which can add thousands of dollars that you pay upfront. Be prepared to come up with an additional 2–5 percent of the purchase price of your home to cover them.

If the upfront money is hard to come by, FrontDoor advises that down payment assistance may be available depending on where you live. Some states have affordable housing programs that that can provide “first-time homebuyers with $7,500,” they said.

Make sure you can afford it monthly

Figure out the monthly payment of a house on any number of online mortgage calculators, and you might think it’s far more affordable than it is, because you’re only calculating principal and interest. Now factor in taxes, insurance, homeowner’s association fees, and Private Mortgage Insurance if you’re putting down less than 20 percent. This can add hundreds of dollars to your monthly payment. Even if you are approved by a lender, can you really swing it?

“Mortgage lenders may approve borrowers with good credit and other favorable factors for a home mortgage that—combined with their other regularly occurring debts—takes up one-third or more of the borrower’s gross pay. However, experts caution it could be a mistake to borrow as big a home loan as a lender will approve.”

Forbes recommends that the “home’s principal, interest, taxes and insurance not exceed 28% of your net income,” and Bankrate adds that “You should not have a mortgage that’s so big you still don’t put at least 10 percent of your income in a retirement plan.”

Be realistic about your goals

If you’re looking for pride of ownership and to improve your way of life, homeownership can be a great move. If your goal is fast cash, maybe not.

“It is a mistake to expect a quick run-up in property values,” said Bankrate. But “Owning a home can help women enter a more secure retirement if they pay down their loan balance over time.”

Don’t be afraid to shop for mortgages

You might be loyal to a friend who is a loan officer, but it doesn’t hurt to look around. Especially when “A Consumer Federation of America study in 2006 found that women received an outsized share of subprime mortgages,” said Bankrate. “Mortgage lenders may not provide women with all loan information and options because of stereotypes about women’s alleged lack of financial sophistication.

Have the loan officer lay out all the options.”

They recommend “checking rates with several mortgage lenders, and don’t simply select a lender based on a recommendation from a friend. A recent study “found women head of households pay 40 basis points—nearly 0.5 percent – more on home mortgages than other borrowers. The co-author of the study asserted that, “The cost variance is due to the fact that 41 percent of women say they relied on a recommendation, while only 25 percent of men did.”

No matter which lender you go with, it’s important to get pre-approved before you shop.

You want to know what you can afford before you fall in love with something that’s way out of your budget. Being pre-approved will also mean you can move forward quickly when you find the right house instead of potentially losing out to another buyer who was better prepared.

See more tips for single women purchasing homes at the Shriver Report.